Identify what emotional safety would look and feel like for her
When it comes to a woman’s experience of life, you can pretty much bet your bottom dollar that she will identify what emotional safety looks and feels like to her. It is the perception or understanding that a person has and experiences in this moment that defines her perception of that world. In essence, it is how a woman sees herself and how that person perceives her worth as a person and her worth as a partner or spouse. If you are wondering what emotional safety is-and if you are looking for the key ingredient that will allow a woman to make a man feel complete and give him permission to fall in love with her-I’m going to have to tell you right off the bat that it is not sex. You see, most women do not need sex in order to feel secure in their relationship because they already have the security of their emotional wellbeing.
Most men just don’t understand this simple fact: a healthy, thriving emotional well being encompasses everything a woman brings into the bedroom. And it doesn’t matter how much a woman wants sex or how much she may be desperate for it. A healthy body is already enough for a woman to feel loved and secured, and if a man could just learn to be aware of that fact, then he would be a whole lot closer to feeling emotionally secure as well. Learning to be sensitive to the way that a woman sees herself is a huge and wonderful first step in making a man feel more connected to her.
Of course, it is not only a matter of physical security when it comes to what emotional safety looks and feels like for women. After all, our connection with our partner is an emotional connection as well. It is how we view and interpret the world as we come into it with each other that creates that connection, not necessarily the sexual act itself. There is no greater pain for a woman than to feel that the man that she is with does not see her as a whole person, with all of her parts and emotions. If you want your man to see you as that whole person, you need to show him that you are willing to be vulnerable, to let him see and appreciate all of you inside and out.